MAGIC LAIR PURPOSEA place to discuss loving and consensual BDSM relationships whether fantasy or real.
This page was not designed to tell you how to get involved in the BDSM lifestyle, only as a means to try to assist you on your way to learning about it. Just as every vanilla relationship is unique, every D/s relationship is also. You must first learn what and who you are, and find your own limits. Nothing should be forced upon you. D/s isn't about force...it is about giving of yourself to another, to learn, to trust, and to blossom in that relationship. No one has the right to demand submission, it can only be given freely...just as no one can be a Dominant without the consent of the other party in the relationship. Most importantly is Safety...First and Formost. Remember...everything, even play, must be SAFE, SANE, and CONSENTUAL....
